Belated README.UPDATING notes for Exim 4.91

Belated README.UPDATING notes for Exim 4.91

People skip versions and move past them later, so while it's too late
for 4.91, this will still help people moving to 4.92 from pre-4.91 in
future.

Note that none of these strictly needed to be documented here:
experimental features, features marked as deprecated for many many
years, etc.  But let's err on the side of caution and include "things
which will break if you try to upgrade without changing Local/Makefile".